In his search for a new perspective on what makes for the good life, Brock Bastian has studied why promoting happiness may have paradoxical effects; why we need negative and painful experiences in life to build meaning, purpose, resilience, and ultimately greater fulfilment in life; and why behavioural ethics is necessary for understanding how we reason about personal and social issues and resolve conflicts of interest. His first book, The Other Side of Happiness, was published in January 2018.
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In this talk, Brock asks us to reflect on the nature of pain, pleasure, and happiness. He urges us to reconsider what really makes us happy, and tells us why we need pain to experience any happiness in life at all.
In a culture that values positivity above all else, negative feelings can seem inappropriate. But denying them can result in toxic positivity which leads to much bigger problems.
Peak emotional experiences are the most meaningful ones in our lives.
The research, published in the journal Emotion, found that overemphasizing happiness can make people more likely to obsess over failure and negative emotions when they inevitably do happen, bringing them more stress in the long run.
There is more than one way to pursue happiness and to cope with the inevitable low times in life.
COVID-19 created new ways of working together overnight, but as restrictions are eased, what we do now and what comes next matters.
We often look in the wrong places to build resilience.